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Living Without a Backup Plan: Guest Posting at Ingrid Schaffenburg’s Blog

Life of a Writer

Happy November everyone!

Today I’m so excited to say that I’m guest posting at the fabulous Ingrid Schaffenburg’s Blog today!

Ingrid blogs about creativity and mindfulness, and going after your dreams. She is a spiritual globetrotter who knows it’s never too late to learn a lesson.

Ingrid asked me to share my story about how I made the bold decision to quit my job in retail management with NO BACKUP PLAN!

This time of year, with holidays looming ahead, can be so stressful. (I know that better than most.) I think this post is timely for all of us to remember to take risks, stay positive, and believe in ourselves.

I hope you’ll hang out with us today! CLICK HERE TO VISIT THE POST PLEASE. 🙂

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TEASER ~ Living Without a Backup Plan

“For six years I worked in retail for a large department store. It’s identity shall not be named in order to protect the damned. I started working there in college, and after graduation, I freaked about becoming an “adult.” So I took a full time position at the store and bragged to my dad that I finally had health insurance.

I was good at my job. I just wasn’t happy.”

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See you at Ingrid’s place!
Tell us about your dreams and big plans.

Sh*t My Husband Says While Sleeping

Set your coffee down, folks! It’s time for another round of “Sh*t My Husband Says While Sleeping,” the reoccurring blog series that pops up…whenever I remember to write down the batsh*t things comin’ outa his mouth!

First, meet my husband.

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This is Joe.
He likes short walks through the grocery store, old school Keanu Reeves movies,
and growing facial hair.

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Now, Joe talks in his sleep. When that happens, he occasionally refers to me as “his little pear juice.”

It isn’t all the time, and he can’t control it, but he says the WEIRDEST things when he sleep talks.

Here are a few of his latest sleep disturbances…

Example No. 1

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Joe: Did you wanna take the bear?

Me: What bear? What’s his name?

Joe: Holia.

Me: Where’d you meet him?

*silence*

Me:

Example No. 2

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Joe: Mmmm Mmmm good! That’s what it is.

Me: What’s good?

Joe: Crackers… And email…. Just kidding about the email. *giggles*

Me:

And this is what I deal with on a somewhat regular basis.

On the flip side, if his REM antics become popular, I might consider switching the tag line of this blog to “Mmmm Mmmm good. That’s what it is.” How do you think that’ll look on a business card?

Do you know someone who talks in their sleep?
Where do YOU think Joe met the bear?

Quite Possibly the Worst Wedding Dream Ever

A few nights ago I had the craziest wedding dream yet!

You already know about my weird dream where I was on the road to interrogate a killer, but stopped to crash someone’s wedding reception just to take notes on what I liked and disliked about it. Note* I do NOT like Skittles as party favors.

But this last dream was far more outlandish!

First off, my dress started out as my real wedding gown, but somewhere in the dream it morphed into a gaudy black sequin and lace ensemble with layers of petticoats underneath and puff sleeves!

more rufflesI came out to greet everyone and ran into my friend, Cat.

“How’s my hair look?” I asked.

She wouldn’t answer me. She just kept prattling on about other things! I begged her to go to the restroom with me so I could see my hair in the mirror. It had been styled by a team of professionals and I badly wanted to see how it turned out.

When we finally got to the bathroom, Cat tried to block me from the mirror. I managed to step around her and catch my reflection.

The top of my head was a beehive of curls, mounded in a great glump. The back of my hair was a mohawk, gelled straight out to a point!

That’s not even the worst part.

matrimonial mulletThe bridal headpiece that was sewn into my hair can only be described as a large purple hula-hoop that was covered, and I mean COVERED, in women’s underpants!

I didn’t know what to do. Where does one even begin to fix a headdress that dangles lady knickers?

I went in search of my family.

When I got to the reception hall, guests were milling about restlessly. A few were seated at tables with odd chairs and stained linens. The staff on hand were way behind cleaning up from a prior event, so nothing was ready for us! There were hardly any chairs for people to sit on, and there was nothing for them to eat or drink but a few water glasses one staff member was lazily dropping ice cubes into, one by one, with a tongs.

Someone had asked our entertainment for the night to start performing, so the side room was filled with Asian dancers moving melodically. But no one was watching them. Because there were no chairs to sit on, guests assumed they were not supposed to be in that room yet. Only a few people who stood in the doorway witnessed any of the dancers we invited.

I started looking for my family again and saw my father, who was carrying in the wedding cake. He was dressed in a Bill Cosby-esque sweater! For his daughter’s wedding?!

Apparently that was the last straw as I woke up right after that, but WOW! I mean, what a circus!

I sat up in bed, stupefied. I turned, looking at Joe, “I had a nightmare.”

Here’s hoping our wedding will include less crazy hair and more of this…

love and cherish wineWhat about you? Had any weird dreams lately?

 

 

Things Joe Says When He’s Sleeping

Joe Sleeping Cartoon

Exhibit A: Joe sleeping

My fiance talks in his sleep. And nothing he says makes sense.

The conversations he has while sleeping rarely relate to anything we’ve done during the day. Although I guess I could count the time we watched The Walking Dead one Sunday night and he muttered this gem while asleep:

Joe: Why are there no zombies in Australia?

Me: What?

Joe: *shouts* WHY??

Who shouts in their sleep about zombie settlements?!

In the words of my mother, “You’re not allowed to watch those shows before bedtime anymore.”

This weekend, he apparently was quoting movie lines in his sleep, but I didn’t get the reference. All I heard was this:

Joe: Be happy in your work, Pear.

Me: What?

Joe: Be happy in your work, Pear.

Me: Who’s Pear?

Joe: You are. You’re my little Pear Juice.

Me: *shakes head, rolls over, goes back to bed*

He was quoting lines from the movie, Club Dread, a film we watched MONTHS ago.

There’s a Pac-Man like maze in the movie where the employees dress up like fruit.

 You better run, Banana!

I can only hope that the ludicrous things coming out of his mouth continue and that this can become a reoccurring blog series. Sure he’s talking about zombie migration and bad Broken Lizard films today, but tomorrow who knows? He just might solve world peace!

But if he doesn’t, you can bet I’ll have lots more to write about. 😉

So thanks, Joe, for keeping it entertaining!

Your Little Pear Juice, or whatever,

Jess

Do you talk in your sleep? Does your partner?
What strange quirks do you or your partner have?

 

Serial Wedding Zombies: When TV Takes Over Your Dreams

I’ve been a having a series of morbid dreams lately. I blame late night television. Marathons of Dexter, The Following, and The Walking Dead are starting to take their toll.

too much TV

Seriously! Dreams about tracking serial killers, zombie attacks, and injecting tranquilizers in my enemies are happening on a regular basis at bedtime. And what’s worse is that these crime thriller/apocalyptic shows are blending themselves with my everyday life. Including wedding planning.

Here’s one of my latest nightmares adventures:

My brother, Justin, and I are on a road trip to go kill a guy.

Cause that’s what older siblings are good for.

But the guy we’re coming after is a total scuzzball, so he deserves what’s coming to him. Problem is…we have to find him first. So we make a pit stop at this party to talk to another guy who can tell us where the first guy – the guy we want to kill (still with me?) – is.

Now, the party we go to ends up being someone’s wedding ceremony. So as we’re sneaking in, I stop us and pull up a chair to watch the wedding and start taking notes about what I like and don’t like about their ceremony.

I did not like the fact that they handed out skittles to everyone. Half of the guests dropped theirs on the ground, which is a safety hazard, and the other half had sticky palms. Ew.

We end up finding the guy we needed to talk to, and we bully him a little to get information. Then we head back to the car to take off again.

Except….

Are you ready for this?

My brother has dropped skittles all over the inside of the car and I’m furious at him for making a sticky mess on the car seats.

That’s when I woke up.

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Here’s how the conversation with my fiance, Joe, went that morning:

Me: “Strange dream.”

Joe: “What’d you dream about?”

Me: “I planned to kill a guy. But I got distracted by candy.”

Joe: “Sounds about right.”

Had any weird dreams lately?

Interpreting Your Dreams: What Your Drawings Can Teach You

And we’re back to the Guinea Pig Diaries – Sleep Study Month!  Last week we talked about Popular Dream Meanings, and we’re going a step further today with a fun drawing activity.  Our dreams can be symbolic or pure release of our subconscious minds.  But sometimes our dreams have a reoccurring symbol and that could have meaning.

The following exercise is from Sylvia Browne’s Book of Dreams and I found it really fun and interesting.  Here are the directions:

Grab a pen and paper.  Draw these five objects:  a house, the sun, water, a tree, and a snake.

STOP READING!  Finish your picture, then continue on. 

Here’s mine!

Dream Drawing

Now, I have to give the same disclaimer that Sylvia gave in her book, which is that these interpretations of dream symbols are not THE ONLY ones they could mean, but they’re some of the more common.  If you’re interested in learning what your particular dreams mean, the best thing you can do is keep a dream journal where you can record images and symbols that make repeat performances while you sleep!

That said, here’s the fun analysis of your drawing!  And don’t worry if you’re not a good “drawer”.  You can see I’m not!  By the way, that spaceship over the door of the house is supposed to be an outside light.  I like those on houses. 

Ok, check this out!

The House

The house represents you.  How did you embellish your house?  Is there a door?  Windows?  Can people see in?  Does the house seem inviting or more closed off?  Is there a chimney for warmth?  A path to the house?  Is it a big house or a tiny one?  Is it a house to be noticed or more to blend in?

The Sun

The sun represents your father.  How close did you draw the sun to your house?  Is it a glowing sun with rays reaching out or is a simple circle up out of the way?  If it has rays do they stretch out for warmth and generosity or do they seem limited in what they can offer?

The Water

The water represents your mother.  Again, look at its proximity to the house?  Is it nearby or distant?  Is it contained, like a pond or pool or flowing and lively like a river or an ocean?  Is it in the foreground or background of your picture?  Is its size relative to that of the house or does it seem out of proportion?

The Tree

The tree symbolizes your intellect, your relationship with your mind, your awareness.  What size is your tree?  Is it in the foreground or background?  Does it have branches that stretch out and provide shade or does it look shriveled and parched?  Does it offer protection over the house or is it too far away?

The Snake

The snake is your sexuality.  What is its location to your house and tree?  Is the size of your snake relative to the size of the house or does it seem out of proportion?  Does it look healthy or should you take it to the doctor?

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I was really shocked how a little drawing like this can pull out some key truths about our lives.  I think that I am most like my father, so it makes sense that the sun is the closest to the house for me.  My mom and I have become much closer over the years so I agree with the flowing river – which in itself, is something I grew up next to and have always found calming.  I pride myself on being very self aware of my words and actions, so I created a more elaborate tree with a tire swing in it.  I’m much more private about my sexuality, so it’s there, appropriate in size and curled up next to the house (at home where it belongs!)  LOL

What do you think?  Are you finding little A-Ha’s in your image?  Don’t stress over the generalization of each object.  Again, if you dream about water a lot, it doesn’t mean you’re obsessed with thinking about your mother.  This is just one interpretation.  But it’s pretty thought-provoking isn’t it? 

Can’t get enough sleep?  I mean blogging about sleep? 

Check out the rest of the Guinea Pig Diaries series:

Want More Sleep?  Snooze is Not the Answer

Let’s Talk About Snoring:  It Might Get Loud!

Popular Dream Meanings:  Or Why Your Teeth Are Falling Out

Sweet Dreams Everyone!

Popular Dream Meanings: Or Why Your Teeth Are Falling Out

Welcome to the Guinea Pig Diaries – a monthly dive into different topics, and this month we’re talking about SLEEP!  Wondering about setting a better sleep routine, check out Snooze is Not the Answer.  Got a partner who snores?  Go read It Might Get Loud.

Today, we’re talking about dreams.

(image courtesy flickr Creative Commons – Heidi M Mcdonald)

Do you ever have a reoccurring dream?  Have you wondered what it means?  Dreams can have a variety of meanings and purposes in our lives; they can show us what we wish for, what we fear, and sometimes we can even speak to loved ones we’ve lost.

The most common type of dream is the Release Dream.

Release dreams serve their purpose by getting rid of the mental stress we carry around during the day.  They can be nonsensical, humorous, and even scary.  Nightmares are a form of release dreams – because they show us the worst case scenario.  They also show us, however, that we can survive.  Our subconscious is shocking us to let us know what we’re capable of accepting and dealing with.

What You Should Know About Nightmares:

Have you or someone you know had a reoccurring dream that a loved one becomes injured or dies?  Nightmares like this are disturbing, no doubt, but it doesn’t mean they’re a premonition of something bad to happen.  If we fear something with our conscious during the day, our subconscious stores it and releases it when we’re asleep.  And again, it’s to show us we’ll survive – even if in our dreams we don’t.  

I can think of a very particular nightmare I used to have again and again as a child.  I dreamed that I was kidnapped.  I was probably around 7 or 8 years old when a man came to our house and knocked on our door.  Being that my father owned a cake business, we commonly had customers stop by to return cake fixtures from parties and such so I thought nothing of strange people at our door.  This guy drove a beat up old truck and asked if my parents were home.  I said they were and to step inside, I’d go get them.  He immediately said, “Oh, that’s ok, nevermind…”, turned and left.  When I told my mom and sister what happened, they were instantly alarmed.  And I remember my sister looking out the window to catch sight of his truck and she called the police.  I didn’t know I should have been scared, but their reaction did the trick.  For several nights following, I suffered the nightmare that I was taken from my family.  It left me scared to even be on the playground at school without other students or teachers around.  Thankfully, I never saw the man again, and I’ve never been taken from my family against my will.

What About The Dreams Where My Teeth Fall Out???

(image courtesy flickr Creative Commons – mmmcrafts)

Opposite of nightmares, release dreams can encompass those totally whacked out dreams we have too!  You know, the ones where gorillas surround the house and take over the birdfeeder!!

just me?…

Moving along!  They’re called a release dream because they’re releasing the stuff our conscious collects throughout the day.  When I was reading The Hunger Games trilogy, you should have SEEN the dreams I was having!  And don’t get me started on my dreams following The Walking Dead.

Dreams About Your Teeth or Hair Falling Out:

Certain reoccurring dreams can have an archetypal meaning.  A common one is the dream that all your teeth are falling out!

If you’re dreaming about your teeth, or hair, falling out it could mean you’re feeling vulnerable or embarrassed in some way.  Perhaps you said something you wished you hadn’t or maybe you’re worried about getting old and afraid people won’t see you the same way.  Both would be triggered by stress, so do whatever calming techniques work best for you – especially before bedtime – to put these dreams to rest (pun intended).  

Dreams About the Weather – Storms, Waves, and Tornadoes:

Different form, same as above.  Emotional stress.  When we feel overwhelmed, we have the saying that “we’re drowning.”  That phrase comes from somewhere!  Emotional turbulence can take a physical form in our dreams through perilous natural elements because our minds recognize these forces as dangerous and requiring caution.

Dreams About Animals:

This one is two-fold.  The most common archetype for bird dreams is that they represent freedom and independence.  Dreams about whales represent grace and beauty.    Dreams of cats represents stealth and wisdom.  However, some Dream Experts* recommend keeping a dream journal so you can record what animals (or any symbols for that matter) are appearing consistently.  This may help you determine their meeting when you can look back and see what situations they are appearing in.  Are they threatening?  Are they protecting?  Are they nurturing?
Dreams About Being Naked in Public:
Again, here’s another form of the ol’ release dream acting out our fear that we’re not prepared for something – could be a speech we have to make or an assignment that’s due.  If we’re afraid of being judged by others, our release dreams could be showing that vulnerability.

(image courtesy flickr Creative Commons – Asta R)

Dreams About Stairs or Mazes:

Dreams where you are climbing stairs or a mountain or searching your way through a maze are all representative of a struggle.  You’re moving forward, but unsure of where the end is at this time.
Dreams About the Moon:
The moon showing in your dreams is often linked with your emotions.  If you’re feeling particularly intuitive, you might manifest the moon showing brightly in a night sky above you.
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There are many more popular archetypes found in our dreams, but these are some of the most common.  Tune in next week when I share a fun drawing activity that teaches you about your dreams!  
Until then, what have you been dreaming about?  Ever had a reoccurring dream?  What’s the weirdest dream you remember having?  Oh, and don’t forget to take your teeth with you when you go!
*All dream archetypes and sleep journal advice come from Sylvia Browne’s Book of Dreams.

Can Sleep Make You Tired?

I’ve tried going to bed at different times.  I’ve eaten and not eaten before bed.  I’ve taken my vitamins and fish oil, and forgotten to take my vitamins and fish oil.

I’m still dreaming about paranormal creatures every night!!!

image courtesy flickr CC – Mrs. Inman

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It started after my boyfriend, Joe, made me watch the movie The Prophecy.  That night I dreamed that I was in battle with both good and bad angels.  And their creepy void eyes just kept staring at me!

But I also learned, that just like Michonne on The Walking Dead, I’ve got made skills with a katana!

After that, I had the most bizarre dream starring several of my coworkers.  I’m sure it’s totally normal for a retail sales manager to be sent on a paranormal investigation of an abandoned building.  BUT, my coworker clearly did not watch horror films, because she broke the rule about not taking anything from the house!

After discovering the ghosts of 3 young children, my coworker took from the house 3 dolls that looked rather a lot like said children and for God knows what reason – PUT THEM IN MY ROOM!

So as my dream continued, every time I went into my room one of the dolls was in a different spot.  The little boy would be sitting on my bed, a little girl on my desk.  I was freaking out!  And what was worse, I didn’t know if my coworkers and boyfriend were working together to mess with me or if in fact my coworker had unleashed 3 ghost children in my house!

The next morning, I woke up so exhausted and definitely gave a few of my coworkers skeptical looks on the job that day.

image courtesy flickr CC – Mrs. Inman

All zombie fans will know that last night was a new episode of The Walking Dead.  This fantastic show has become a regular date night for Joe and I to enjoy.

But zombies were in my dreams last night!

I love paranormal stories, you guys, but how do I stop dreaming about them?  My epic nighttime battles are making me wake up exhausted!

Perhaps tonight I should watch a happy movie.  Anyone know where I put my Shirley Temple collection?

image courtesy flickr CC – Mrs. Inman

And don’t forget to leave me a music suggestion for The Ultimate Mix Tape For My Mom!  My blog-swapping, cd making contest is still happening, and YOU COULD WIN!!!

Open Your Eyes: A Chilling Tale of Sleep Paralysis

It was late.  We were hanging out in the basement of my family home, the usual dark and private place for teenagers to dwell.  My then boyfriend and I were squished into one lay-z-boy chair watching a movie, which was the norm when you worked at a video store and got all the new ones free.

photo courtesy amazingers.com

I must’ve fallen asleep.  I don’t remember what I was doing before…lights.  Round, amber flashes before my eyes and the startling cry of a lost child.  Someone or something was pushing down on me, pressing the air from my lungs and I couldn’t move to stop it.  I had lost all control of my body.  I thought I was shaking, but I couldn’t make my arms push the monster on top of me away.  I couldn’t even open my eyes.  Only darkness.  And the increasing panic that I was being punished, or worse killed.  Open your eyes!  I commanded.  Open your eyes!  

When I woke from the blackness I sobbed audibly.  It was only a minute or two, but it felt like a full nightmare.  My boyfriend was holding my arms, terrified.  What just happened?  I thought you were having a seizure!  What’s wrong?!  I didn’t know what to say, or what happened, only how I felt.  No matter how I tried, I couldn’t move.  Was it a sign?  Was something after me?  Had I gone too far into the paranormal world and now one of them was after me?  I couldn’t say anything.  Who would believe me anyway?

Several weeks earlier, my family celebrated Christmas and both my sister and I received Sylvia Browne’s Book of Dreams.  Browne, a world renowned psychic, was an author my sister had turned me onto, and we’d been reading several of her books about the afterlife, haunted locations, and totem spirits.  I’d been slowly making my way through this book, which was more an educational book than a paranormal or spiritual read like her others.  The Book of Dreams dealt with archetypes and dream symbology, common images that represent the changes or people in our lives.  You know, like how we all have dreams about flying or falling or showing up naked to class.

A week after my scary episode, I was in the living room, stretched out on the couch reading through my Book of Dreams.  On sleep disorders, actually.  I bolted upright.  Sleep paralysis.  A condition where your state of sleep is interrupted and your conscious mind “awakes” before your body does.  Seriously, check out WebMD.  The symptoms include feeling an evil presence, stiffness of the body, flashing lights, loud noises, hallucinations, a weight upon one’s chest, and/or a sense of choking.

So I’m not crazy after all.  Or possessed, which was quite a relief.  And sleep paralysis is not a chronic condition, it’s rather rare.  It only happens if your body goes in and out of a state of sleep and consciousness too quickly.  I’ve never experienced it since, thankfully.  What I do find odd is the fact that I read about my experience one week after going through it.  Was I meant to get that book to help me understand what happened?  Was someone watching over me?  Or am I just really that superstitious and gullible?  Something tells me I wouldn’t be asking these questions if I just dreamed about showing up naked to school.

Have you ever heard of experienced sleep paralysis?  What do you think about it being a medical physical condition that attaches negative emotions to its occurrence?  It has a paranormal ring to it, don’t you think?  Sweet dreams, my ghoulies.

The Party Don’t Start Til I Walk In

It’s finally here!  It’s officially been 3 months for the Life List Club members and contributors working diligently on our goals.  And we all know that when we work hard, it means you get to play hard too!  Bring on the good times!

What is the Life List Club?  The Life List Club is a place for writers and readers alike to share with each other their goals/dreams/bucket list/what-have-you and support one another along the journey.  You can join by subscribing to any of the LLC contributor blogs which are located in the sidebar.  Anyone can be a member and we encourage all of you to make your own Life List page on your blog as a reminder to yourself what you want to accomplish.  We’re here to lend helpful advice, encouragement, and good old fashioned ass-kicking when you need it!

It’s a Milestone Party?  Today we’re celebrating our progress on our goal lists since we started 3 months ago.  We have music, food, and great schwag to giveaway, so I invite everyone to leave a comment; share with me how you’re doing on your goal commitments, what advice would you offer others, and feel free to dance!

My List and Progress Thus Far:

  1. Write every day, even if it is only ten words.  (Ok, this hasn’t been completely consistent, but it is improving.  What’s helped the most is blogging ahead and making a planner where I create and follow through on writing time.)
  2. Read 2 books a month for fun.  (I’m loving this!  See what I’m reading by visiting my Bookshelf.)
  3. Submit my work for publication.  (Nina Badzin wrote this post on why it’s important to just do it and not be a snob about your publication opportunities.  But I have nothing finished yet, so this goal is post-poned, but not gone away.)
  4. Learn about the craft of writing.  (I’m currently learning about novel set-up through my Fly on the Wall status in Warrior Writer’s Boot Camp.  I get to observe others’ writing and edits, offer input, but I don’t yet submit my own.  The basis of this boot camp is to prep you well before it’s your turn to start submitting.  I’m also signed up for Kristen Lamb’s Author Branding Class to make a bigger impact with my blog and writing.  Can’t wait!)
  5. Learn about social media.  (Uh, Kristen Lamb.  Best Freshly Pressed post to ever stumble onto.)
  6. Attend a writing conference.  (Madison Writers Institute – Wonderful experience I’m now on the lookout for next year’s conference, and thinking about saving up money to attend DFW in Texas, the conference Kristen usually speaks at!  Might see some of my favorite tweeps and bloggers there!)
  7. Meet with other writers.  (Ok, I attempted to start a local writer’s club which didn’t pan out cause everyone is so busy.  I did start a critique group with 3 writers I met at the Madison Writers Institute, but we’re not on a regular schedule either.  LLC and WWBC have been the most beneficial, which leads me to advise that while in-person groups may be more fun, don’t knock the online ones, cause they’re full of amazing people who can help you get the job done, and probably faster.)
  8. Write a fiction book.  (It’s my current work in progress.  The plan of attack is jump start writing again with NaNoWriMo and follow the WWBC evos to prepare more efficiently.)
  9. Cook more meals at home.  (I’m well of aware of the bologna incident, and the write like potatoes incident, and the double stuff oreos incident in spite of my mother.  It’s about progress, and part of progress comes from being aware.  Honestly, I’ve made some smart decisions, and have spent more time eating fruits/veggies first before the cheetos.  And I vow to not ever, not even if someone dared me, eat bologna again.  I couldn’t live down the shame the first time I blogged about it!)
  10. Be more frugal.  (I struggle here, but I’ve got some worthwhile goals and desires to attend conferences and travel more, so I’m going to watch my excess spending and start that “fund” where all the money you didn’t spend on grande green tea lattes and fancy jewelry goes into that fund jar instead which will slowly help me get to Korea, or Finland, or Singapore, or wherever else I want to go.)
  11. Take a real vacation and leave the country.  (I visited Toronto, Canada for a week with my honey, and it was so beautiful and fun.  Loved hanging out in the big city, seeing Niagara Falls, and trying Ice Wine for the first time!  Mmmm)
  12. Go to the beach.  (I blame Wisconsin weather.  And working too much.  We still only got to the beach two times this year.  But we supplemented our outdoors time with hiking, oh that’s right, we nearly died…)
  13. Go see live theater.  (It’s part of my birthday present.  I get to drag Joe to a local theater event!  Yay!)
  14. Keep up with my gratitude journal, 5 things each day.  (Here’s what I recently wrote down.  Ice water, Joe cooking dinner, fried green tomatoes, taking a late night walk around town, watching Chic music videos on youtube.)
  15. Track my progress of learning the social media and publishing world.  (I’ve been adding a second list underneath my gratitude journal that focuses on eye opening moments.)
  16. Spend more time with friends and family.  (Even though it meant a lot more driving, and therefore less writing time, I took some extra weekend trips home to see family this month.  I know it was entirely worth it.)

Rules That Help Me Survive:

Here are the three rules that I’ve come to ground myself with as I work towards my goals.  If you want to see how I came up with them and use them, check out this LLC post I did about making my own boot camp to kickstart my writing.  I hope these rules help you towards your goals too.

  1. Life comes first.
  2. Get up early.
  3. Feelings lie.

PRIZES!!!  To win, you must subscribe (or already be subscribing) and comment below!  Good luck!

All of us LLC contributors are giving away FABULOUS prizes today!  I’m offering one commenter a signed copy of Bethany Wiggins’ new book Shifting!

     After bouncing from foster home to foster home, Magdalene Mae is transferred to what should be her last foster home in the tiny town of Silver City, New Mexico. Now that she’s eighteen and has only a year left in high school, she’s determined to stay out of trouble and just be normal. Agreeing to go to the prom with Bridger O’Connell is a good first step. Fitting in has never been her strong suit, but it’s not for the reasons most people would expect-it all has to do with the deep secret that she is a shape shifter. But even in her new home danger lurks, waiting in the shadows to pounce. They are the Skinwalkers of Navajo legend, who have traded their souls to become the animal whose skin they wear-and Maggie is their next target.

Learn more about Bethany and her book in my author interview with her!  Or check out her blog at Shooting Stars.

Other Fabulous Prizes Include:

Pam Hawley is giving away:
-Winner’s choice of excerpt from my novel-in-progress or a copy of my short story
“Elevated.”
– I will interview the winner on their goals and ambitions for a future post in Hawleyville.
– Option to publish a piece of their own fiction/essay (up to 2,000 words) or do a guest
post at my blog.

David Walker is giving away 2 prizes:
-to a commenter, a copy of a short story, Bubba’s First Cruise
-to a subscriber, a guest post swap.

Marcia Richards is giving away:
-a copy of flash fiction – Night Moves
-invitation to guest post or be interviewed on my blog
-winner’s name used for a character in my trilogy, The Dance and The Dancer

Jennie Bennett is giving away 2 prizes:
-3 books, Oliver Twist, Secret Garden and A Little Princess
-10-page in depth critique

Sonia Medeiros is giving away:
-Larry Brooks’ Story Engineering Ebook

Jenny Hansen is giving away a prize to each a commenter and subscriber:
-Choice of a guest post from Jenny for the winner’s blog OR an interview of the winner  on Jenny’s blog

Violeta Nedkova is giving away:
-In-depth Critique of two WIP chapters

Diana Ligaya is giving away:
-a copy of Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces
-an in-depth critique for fiction up to 15,000 words

Emily Moir is giving away:
-a 5 piece (4X6) photo series by Kate Moir

Alright folks, put on your favorite party hat and boogie with the Life List Club today!  We can also be found disco dancing on twitter at #LifeListClub. 

Now tell me, how’s your life list coming along?

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