It’s the end of the week for my resolution to eat healthier and see how it would affect my energy and writing.
I can’t boast an amazing outcome as I’m now sick with some sort of cold and sore throat. I think my niece coughed in my face a couple times and that’s what I get for coloring with her. On the bright side, induced in a tylenol cold medicine sleep last night, I completely slept through some sort of war between my roommates. Apparantly at some early morning hour a taxi showed up at our house and began ringing the doorbell repeatedly. My boyfriend thought it must be our roommate and he locked himself out. We have a spare key hidden that our roommate knows about. My roommate, I guess, actually answered the door and figured out the taxi driver had the wrong house. Oops, sorry. However, my boyfriend, being in a particularly crabby mood this morning (unbeknownst to me in my medicated slumber) decided if he was up and awake, our roommate should be too. So my boyfriend calls our roommate and repeatedly knocks on his door to wake him up, and now my roommate is also crabby. I am positively delighted and cheery today because for once I slept through it all. Yay!
Final Day Diet:
green tea and cough drops, if feeling better later, soup
I’m hoping after the weekend I’ll have a better appetite, so I did spend the better part of last night looking at recipes to make. How does apricot chili pork chops with lemon spaghetti sound? And chicken enchilada skillet? And brown sugar steaks with parmesan potatoes? Oh, I can’t wait to cook again!
Back to writing:
Last post, I challenged us writers to give ourselves SPACE and I’m still impressed with the idea to make changes in our lives, so I’m going to include that in my week’s resolutions. I’d love to hear more about how each of you are giving yourself SPACE to grow, try something new, relax, reenergize. What do you do get motivated again? What are your guilty pleasures for writing? What prevents you from arranging SPACE to grow in? I can’t say thank you enough to the many bloggers/writers who have motivated me to keep going and think positive because any amount of change and any amount of writing is something proactive to have in your life.
This week I will give myself space by:
- Watching a Jane Austen movie.
- Cleaning my room of clutter.
- Journaling for my own enjoyment.
- Finish writing the icy mausoleum scene in my story.
- Blog ahead at least 2 posts.
Looking for more inspiration to get started? Here are some posts I really enjoyed.
AJ Zaethe Great post on incorporating magic in your world building.
Albert Berg A post on how to plot when you hate plotting.
CM Stewart How to write realistic disabled characters.
Kristen Lamb Humorous post on Celebrity Death Match Author Edition.
Margaret Reyes Dempsey Serving up blurbs and hot tea while she’s snowed in!
Olivia Tejeda A brand new online literary journal debuts!
Ollin Morales Sending love to writers who haven’t figured out how to write just yet.
I’m stuffing lettuce in my face right now. Guilt tripped after a weekend with the family, I devoured bite size bits of chocolate, ate french toast for supper, and cheesy potatoes for breakfast. But I was leaving soon, and if I didn’t eat them for breakfast, I wouldn’t get any more!
Penitence: a light green salad, smidge of a smidge of a drizzle of caesar dressing, and Morning Star chicken nuggets with barbecue sauce and pomegranate juice. It’s sort of like a kids meal at a fast food restaurant isn’t it, which tells you how well I prepared for this week’s resolution to eat healthier.
I swear to you, come morning, it’s back to Luna Bars and orange juice for breakfast.
Ok, Jess, distract the readers from your failings, what did you accomplish this week?
Let’s see, I relaxed. Sure that may not sound like an accomplishment, but for me, it’s not an easy thing to do. And I bet many of you find it difficult too. We writers can procrastinate to no end, but that’s not the same thing. Say it with me, it’s not the same thing! Procrastinating requires you to be doing other things when you should be doing something else more important. But I had no immediate task to undertake. I was free for three days to lay on the couch, watch movies with my parents, color with my niece, and read 100 pages of Jane Austen’s Emma while either in bed or in the tub. That’s right, I took baths! To some, the notion of a bath is disgusting, as you’re sitting in the same water for so long, but I freaking love them!!! And we have no tub at our house. Well, we do, but it’s in my roommate’s bathroom, and I wouldn’t step a toe in that tub; it’s full of man hair and year old mold. ylech!
I just got to hang out for a few days with my best friend, the red fleece blanket my parents call “Bette.” Don’t ask. I saw my dad attempt to latin dance, and my mother repeatedly fall asleep during every movie we watched. I had my two year old niece pretending to be a monster crawl all over me growling and tell me what I thought was her monster name, “GaGaGooGi.” Turns out, she wanted to recite “Baa, Baa, Black Sheep.” *shrug*
I also attended a church service for the first time in maybe four years, Christmas excluded. My dad recently transferred, if you can use that verb while talking about religion, to a new church and my mom still goes to Catholic mass. I decided to appease him and go to his service on Sunday morning. I was a little out of my realm. Half an hour before the service started was pure parish singing, and there were a decent number of raised arms about me. I’m not comfortable with that. I ventured down that path once before, and the more I got into it, the more I found out my beliefs differed from everyone elses. Still, I admit, it was moving. The pastor had a very moving lesson to teach us, and I applied it as fittingly as I could with my current endeavors. The lesson essentially taught us, “God is a filler, not a forcer.” God will never force us to do anything, but if we give him SPACE he will fill it with all his goodness.
Ok, stay with me. I’m not about to change platforms and write about religion. But I can appreciate situations where I feel uncomfortable. And I can learn from them, and from those around me. Even though my religious views don’t match my fathers, it seemed more meaningful that I go with him, and when he held my hand in prayer, I felt it shake. So, I listened to the sermon, and I said, “Self, how can you make SPACE for your writing? What will you allow your SPACE to be filled with? Who will you show off your new SPACE to? And before you can do that, what must you clear away first?”
When I opened my thoughts to my writing, and how a silly thing like SPACE could impact it, I was sort of stunned. I think it does apply that for us to be creative and embracing of criticism and feedback, we have to open and give ourselves SPACE to hear those things. For us to try a new idea, a new genre, a new publishing venture, we have to give ourselves SPACE to show those things.
How are you giving yourself SPACE this week?